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Speak about a loaded subject that no one wants to speak about, this is it. Amusing thing, married dating have been going on since old ages. Affairs can be burdened with problems, cause sadness, and other problems. In addition you must wrap your maind around all the other issues, there’s that truth and openness issue, money, age dissimilarity, faith education, shame, and on and on. I anticipate there will be some strong opinions about some of this.

For the purpose of this article I shall define an affair as a long term, maybe decades long relationship of a sexual nature between two individuals of whom one or both are married to other wives/husbands, discreet dating for married.

Why do women have extramarital affairs? There are as many answers as there are seeking affairs. I think mainly though it is only the human nature, the need for love, belonging, to be wanted and cared for, the caring for others and wanting to be loved and loved. Here are a few reasons I have run across.

Physically we as humans are all sexual creatures. Nature has us set up to reproduce, to have sex. Sex is pleasant and fun, and sex makes us get away the real world for a short period of time. This ecstasy exists for whatever amount of time we are able to keep the adrenalin levels elevated enough. Some people can switch the longing on and off, some are brilliant at controlling it and others are so-so at best. Though we all have it, young and mature, able bodied and not so able. It is the Human condition. For some of us it is the sex act itself that drives us. For some of us it is the exhilaration of the pursue. For some of us it is the seduction, for some it is the caring for another person, for some it is the wish to be appreciatedloved, for some it is the entire romance thing. These wishes and yearnings can be so strong they rise above the taboos humanity has erected against affairs. For many people the yearnings will overcome their worries and make them risk the rage of not only their family, but society too. So why, what is the catalyst?

Sex Addicts, maybe some of us are. Sex is awfully pleasant, better then drugs, a natural high. If you are in this group of physically motivated sex addicts and can find away to have an affair and not hurt your relatives or anyone else? You will need to reduce the jeopardy you are taking. If you have the feeling that a good affair is one that is beneficial to everybody, then good luck.

No love at home, or no romance. I suppose this is the largest group, enormous really. There are many couples whose marital relationships is over, except they feel comfortable in the way they live, and upsetting the extended families is not on their list of things they wish to do. You love your spouse but there is no romance. Also there are the children to consider. Your finances are so knotted. You need the medical insurance, and so on. There are a lot of reasons to live together besides love and sex.

Physical reasons, there are some people who can not have sex. They have physical circumstances that stop them implementing the sex operation, at least not with their othere half. An extra-marital affair sometimes solves the difficulty while keeping the marriage undamaged.

Ignoring, sorrowfully this is a regular groung I fear. One or the other, generally the gentleman is sexually neglecting his woman for a large humber of reasons. As a man I actually am grateful to you guys neglecting your girls and making them accessible to us males of romance, making them “lonely wives” Though I still think it is despicable that you are neglectful. Then there is the spouse who is neglectful until the wife or husband has an affair, then they condemn them for doing so, when they where the catalyst. Those who neglect, then condemn, are not only neglectful, but malevolent.

Something is just omitted in the marriage, I can not put my finger on it, but its not there. Perhaps its romance that is missing, maybe it is a lack of love, maybe caring is disappeared, could be it is the closeness, could be neglect. Maybe we have just grown separately, our relulas concerns diverged. Maybe it is that what I want, and what I want to do the rest of my ages, is diverce of what you want. Could be I just do not know what I want from the marriage anymore. Could be, just maybe I miss that emotion that when I am with you, it just feels right.

The major reason people give is, they look for the excitement that is missing and so very much longed for.

There are other reasons, the feeling of power, to run away, for financial gain, for payback and so on. I am sure there are more reasons why people have affairs then these. I only stop because if this gets too long no one will read it.